Top Ten Tuesday: Favourite BDSM Toys

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Which of my my kinky toys really is my favourite? Read on to find out…

For this week, I decided to get back to the good stuff and bring you something a little naughty! We know what it’s all about here in this blog, and so with that in mind, why wait any longer? Today I’m going to be sharing with you some of my personally chosen (and acquired!) favourite kinky toys, all ranked in numerological order.

Of course, anticipation is a great way to build up any scene and so with that in mind, I’m going to place this list in descending numerolgical order, starting with my least favourite (but still very much a favourite!) at number ten. Many of the photos were also taken much later in the evening with my delightful red bedroom lighting which we normally use during play time. Don’t say as I don’t spoil you 😉

Are you ready? Remember, don’t forget your safeword…

10. Bondage Boutique Bound To Please Under The Mattress Restraint System

Bondage Bountique Bound To Please Under The Mattress Restraint System on double bed.

The unfortunate reality of BDSM is that, quite often, fully-equipped dungeons are something of a pipeline dream. Because of that, quite often we need to take a good hard look at the things we have and think of the ways that we can adapt them. The beauty of these systems is that they aren’t too expensive (about £35 or so) and can be easily stuffed into a rucksack to take wherever you choose to go. They can be a bit of a pain to set up and aren’t the best for activities like flogging, but for things like a kinky tie and tease sesh? You couldn’t go far wrong…

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9. Bad Kitty Butterfly Nipple Clamps

Bad Kitty butterfly nipple clamps. Adult body jewellery.

Sensual body jewellery and kinky sex toys in one, no wonder these had to be listed as a favourite! The clamps on these are adjustable and the tips have rubber caps, creating an incredibly sexy squeeze. Not only, but the faceted acrylic butterflies carry just a little bit of weight, causing them to pull on the nipples a little in the most delightful fashion. Beautiful accessories, not worn nearly often enough!

8. Bondage Boutique Furry Paddle

Bondage Boutique furry paddle.

Which do you prefer, pleasure or pain? On one side of this paddle is a soft, faux fur fabric, and on the other is the sharp sting of leather. It packs a wonderful sound, accentuating it’s involvement at many a kinky party! Pick a side to suit your mood, or alternate between the two for a wonderful experience guaranteed to leave you both smiling!

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7. Bungee Rubber Flogger

Rubber flogger BDSM sex toy.

Ahh, the ultimate snooze fest! With a firm stroke, this flogger can deliver a deeper, thuddier sensation, or used lightly, it can deliver a bit of a sting. It’s best use, though, is with a controlled, sweeping criss-cross strokes, absolutely heavenly for flogger enthusiasts and first-time beginners. Our first ever flogger and it’s still going strong!

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6. Rechargeable Magic Wand

Rechargeable magic wand vibrator sex toy.

This one is a bit of a dark horse because really, I didn’t want to include dildos and vibrators in my mix of kinky toys- of course I enjoy the things that give me orgasms, that’s sort of obvious! The thing is my favourite kind are forced orgasms, a kinky loss of control that simply can’t be rivalled, and hence it belongs here. This wand is waterproof, has several speeds and a strong vibration, guaranteed to do exactly what you wanted 😉

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5. Steel Leather Dildo Flogger

Steel and leather dildo flogger

If you’re wondering, then wonder no more – yes, the steel handle on this wonderful little treat absolutely can be inserted into wherever you so desire. The throngs deliver quite a sting, so it’s definitely not the best toy for the flogger newbie, but it’s quite delightful for pain & sensation enthusiasts like me. Pleasure or pain, why not have both? 😉

4. Black Rose Faux Fur Blindfold

There are a number of things about this blindfold that, I think, make it better than many others. It has a wider strap for a start making it easier to keep on. The beautiful glittery rose pattern (shown in second photo under flash!) adds a little something to playtime too, making it one of the toys that I’m most proud of. If, like me, a little bit of sensory deprivation is a firm favourite on kinky sex night. Well, then you know just what to do 😉

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3. Steel Claws

steeth goth claws BDSM primal play
Rawr! 😛

Yep, I’m in love with these – they are just as fun to play with as they are to wear! Whether you’re into inflicting sensation (not pain, they’re probably no sharper than a ballpoint pen 😉 ) or just want to terrify your partner a little, these are great fun. Especially for women, as these little gems fit perfectly over the fingertip to use wherever you so desire. Compact, affordable, and very, very fun.

Unfortunately I can’t find these anymore, but we do also have (and recommend!) this one.

2. Wartenberg Pinwheel

Wartenberg pinwheel BDSM sensation play

I just… The pinwheel so nearly stole the number one spot, so nearly! Guaranteed to get even the most reluctant subby to squeal, these wheels of wonder are pure sensation and no marks or blood. Combined with bondage and a blindfold, these could just be the highlight of my night. We have three – a five-wheeled one, a single-wheel Fifty Shades Darker one (pictured) and a mini, perfect-for-travels plastic one. Pinwheel aficionado? Who? Me? 😉

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And The Winner is….

1. Bondage Boutique Slim Leather Riding Crop

Riding crop BDSM impact play

Riding crops denote power, they denote control and they pour pure kinky sex appeal. Many regard the crop as a purely spanking implement, but really, it can be so, so much more. From light pats that tantalise and threaten, to harder slaps that sting. You can trace the flat of the bulb across your partner’s skin to caress them, or drag the edge across their skin for a truly exciting sensation. Whichever technique is your favourite, there is a reason it makes it to the top of my list of my top ten BDSM toys. I can’t imagine my kinky life without one!

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That concludes my Top Ten BDSM toys. Which one is your favourite, what would make your kinky Top Ten toys list? Also, if you have any ideas for future Top Ten lists, please do let me know because I am quickly running out of ideas!

.Until next time.

Stay safe & have fun,

Helen xx

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