TMI Tuesday – 07th September 2021

Am I a leader or a follower? And what do I think makes a good leader, anyway?

Hello Twisties,

I’m back for another week of TMI Tuesday. I’m ready to go, are you?

What Is TMI Tuesday?

TMI Tuesday is a series of questions generated by TMI Tuesday Blog. It is a great way to meet other bloggers and to share some personal thoughts and experiences. It is important to remember that there are no right or wrong answers to these questions, only the answers of the author –  and that’s part of what makes this tag so awesome! 

How To Play TMI Tuesday

Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Send Me Your Questions!

Do you have something you’ve been itching to ask? Maybe something food-related, something a little bit kinky or something completely random? Have fun with it, then be sure to check back next Tuesday for my answer!

1. In what way is creativity just like sex?

Sometimes you use strong strokes, and other times you use gentler ones. Sometimes it takes a long time to create a masterpiece, and others almost no time at all.

Sometimes people use their creativity to fuck your mind in ways that you didn’t even see coming. Afterwards, you’re just left captivated, enchanted,… curious 😉

2. What important successes have you had in life that people just don’t know about?

Important? Eh, that’s a hard one. I had a certificate for leadership skills before I even knew what leadership was, but that’s not really an important success, or is it? An important skill, perhaps?

I also won a trophy for junior dog handling. Same dog wrapped me around an agility pole moments later. We didn’t go back…

3. What do you like more being a leader or a follower?

100% a leader. I don’t follow anyone, not unless I see logic in their plan. Even then, following you once doesn’t mean I’ll follow you always, but I will just for the moment.

The weird thing is, people often think that being a leader means you have to be strict and bossy and make up tonnes of playbook rules, but that’s just not true.. A little tip? Ask thought-provoking questions that make people think for themselves. A leader isn’t above, either, they’re on the same level. They know how it feels to be at the bottom of the pile and work up.

4. If you could send a message to an alien species, what would it be?

“Yo, ‘sup?” – seriously, that was all I could think of this morning!

5. Have you ever been happy that you lied?

Okay, this is a funny question, but yes, and for good reason. My neighbour is a compulsive liar, and I mean this, he comes out with some absolute corkers. The first one he told me was that he’d had workout tips from Sylvester Stallone so you know, I’m thinking “hey! That’s pretty cool!”, but then it got worse. He told me that he’d worked out with Arnold Schwarzenegger he said that he’d worked for Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates. he co-founded Badoo and he’d had casual calls with Miley Cyrus. To top it all off, he’s also told me that his uncle owns a 32-bedroom house in the USA, he’s dated several porn stars and his daddy was a member of the SAS. Yeah, you know, he’s one of those people. In the end and for his celeb-filled life, I nicknamed him “Parties With Stars”. He must do! Right?!

So I just fuck him around a bit now, you know, I tell him that I have to write my next piece for mass publishing and that I can’t possibly stop and chat. The guy now thinks I’m an esteemed author with several publishing deals, little does he know 😉

Bonus: What can you do that no one else can?

At first, I wanted to say “attract men naturally” but then that’s not strictly true, there are probably undoubtedly plenty of other women that can do that, too.

But then I thought about this question more logically and I thought, “being me”. I mean… who else can be me, amirite? I’ve seen a few people try, but you can never truly replicate the original 😉

That’s it from me for this TMI Tuesday! Join me next week for the next round!

Until next time,

Stay safe & have fun,

Helen xx

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