Share The Love On Saturday: Words About Myself: Slut — Slave Shae

Never be ashamed to be what or who you truly are, especially if you’re a slut.

He contends that “slut” is appropriate to me while “whore” is not. There is a sweetness to him in protecting me from the unfair label of “whore” even while he readily and deliciously calls me a “slut.”

words about myself: slut — slave shae

Hello Twisties,

Welcome back to another Share The Love On Saturday where once again, I find myself sharing another great piece from the magnificent slave Shae. There were some many great contenders for today’s post but Shae just stole the spot at the last moment with a post that yet again resonated with me in some way.

For me, and just like Shae, “slut” is a label that I embrace. At a time, I’d recoil in horror at the idea of being given such a label and yet now, “slut” is something of a badge of honour for me. In fact, it is even more so now than ever because I devote myself to the pleasure and enjoyment of not one, but two different men

So yes, I am a slut.

For me, the pleasure of sex does not come from where may think it should – it is a psychological and emotional thing. The act of serving, the act of giving and the act of allowing myself to be used and enjoyed by my men, my own sexual pleasure comes secondary. I can happily have sex and not come first – that’s just how little my satisfaction means to me, compared to theirs.

So yes, I am a slut.

I’ve written before about my childhood, about being told that sex is boring and that women themselves don’t like sex. What I have found though, as I’ve gotten older, is that of all pleasures, I like sex best.

So does that make me a slut? Well, then by definition, yes.

But a “whore”, I am not.

Why? Because exactly as Shae pointed out, I have never been paid for sex. I’ve messed around and joked (one such after I innocently told Matt that I was “standing on the corner”), but it’s never truly happened. It’s a label that I can flatly deject because it’s simply not true for me.

Before I became fully submissive in 2009 I was a switch, specialising in verbal humiliation. To provoke me into reacting and punishing him, one of the men who served me used to call me a “whore”. Unfortunately for him, it also didn’t have quite the reaction that he was hoping for.

Why? Because apart from being very manipulative and disrespectful, it also just wasn’t true. He wasn’t paying me, we weren’t having sex. Therefore, I wasn’t a whore.

When either of my men calls me a slut, it is something of a validation which is met with an affirmation. They know me, they see me, they love me and they accept me. Because of their acceptance of me, I have no qualms in being exposed (and used) by them, and so for them, I am a slut. .

What are your thoughts on being called a slut? Do you enjoy it? Do you hate it?

Until next time – Happy reading!

Stay safe & have fun,

Helen xx

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