2021 has been a hell of a year, how did it look for you? It’s TMI Tuesday.
It’s that time of the week again Twisties, who’s back for another round of TMI Tuesday?
What Is TMI Tuesday?
TMI Tuesday is a series of questions generated by TMI Tuesday Blog. It is a great way to meet other bloggers and to share some personal thoughts and experiences. It is important to remember that there are no right or wrong answers to these questions, only the answers of the author – and that’s part of what makes this tag so awesome!
How To Play TMI Tuesday
Copy the below TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Send Me Your Questions!
Do you have something you’ve been itching to ask? Maybe something food-related, something a little bit kinky or something completely random? Have fun with it, then be sure to check back next Tuesday for my answer!
1. My favorite thing about 2021 was _____ .
Probably entertaining my family for my birthday. I put on a little sit-down dinner with international snacks and we were all identifying the flags on the bunting. It was great fun!
2. What is something that happened to you in 2021 that you never want to forget?
I can’t think of anything remarkable, but there’s probably something. Maybe again, hosting a successful dinner party in my tiny lounge? We made that happen, and it definitely paid off!
3. What would you like to do differently next year?
I need to relax more. I got told off earlier for being still up at 3-4AM sometimes, so I definitely need to get into the habit of clocking off at a decent time to relax!
4. How do you honor the past while staying focused on the future?
I practice acceptance. You know, the past is the past, you can’t change the past but you can use the past to change your future, for good or for bad. For example, you can try to control your environment (and/or the people in it), or you can embrace uncertainty and work on that instead. Letting go of control is hard, but I try to embrace uncertainty and open my mind to possibility. When I look to possibility, I then see opportunities which I may not have noticed before.
Gees that sounded so hippy!
5. Next year I am excited to _____ .
Grow my blog, of course! You know, I’ll be honest and say that this time last year I was worried about where my blog was headed. I’d just started on my “What’s Your Kink?” series but beyond that, I was a bit stumped. In a way, I was in a bit of a cycle of negative thinking because I believed that there were other sex bloggers out there who are funnier, more attractive and kinkier than I am. That may be the case, but how many disabled kinky bloggers are there? Not nearly so many! Once I found my niche, I began to embrace myself and what I have to offer. I’ve stopped focusing on being different and focused instead on teaching and sharing with my own audience in mind. I might not appeal to some people because of the way I look, but I appeal to a great many because of who I am!
Bonus: Do you feel jaded at all?
From time to time, yes. I think it’s normal, I’m human, and humans do normal things… usually.
That’s it from me for this TMI Tuesday! Join me next week for the next round! Do you have any questions for me for next week? Don’t forget to leave them in the comments below!
Until next time,
Stay safe & have fun,