Cumming Clean: Reflecting On My Personal Porn Use Habits

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What happens after dark, stays after dark. Or does it?

Porn. It’s something that so many of us view, and yet so few of us will admit to viewing. While men are typically more open about their usage of pornography, studies by Ann Summers suggest more than half of women are viewing it, so what is it that women enjoy?

I was recently inspired by a post by fellow blogger, Holly, of Still Searching For Prince Charming. In her post, Holly shared some interesting statistics of Pornhub, as well as a breakdown as some of the most popular topics for men and women. Inspired and intrigued by her post, I decided to keep a track of what tickled my fancy for the next two weeks, which I would then share with my readers.

A Battle Of The Sexes

Before I share with you my top five topics, I want to take a quick moment to reflect on one of the most popular debates: It is often said that men are visually stimulated and women are mentally stimulated, but is this necessarily true? Whilst men perhaps may appreciate physical form more than women, it appears that the reason both sexes view porn is the same: to boost the imagination during solo play. Although physical attraction can make us linger on a video for longer, I feel it’s important to point out that here that the attractiveness of the actors (as well as my preference for more ‘average’ guys anyway!) was not essential to my viewing of any particular video.

So, in descending order, what was is that got my heart all in a flutter?

At number five was exhibitionism & voyeur. I grouped these together because in some videos, it was hard (pardon the pun) to distinguish exhibitionism from voyeurism. From dogging to handjobs at a nudist beach, the risk of being seen was enough to leave a girl breathless. 

At four, lesbian porn & threesomes. Whilst I don’t hide from my bisexual curiosities, they aren’t as prevalent for me anymore as they used to be. Of course there’s a curiosity about a bottle of wine and a night in with a friend, but the realities of the fantasy make it less interesting when I know that it’s probably not going to happen, or that even if it did, it won’t be anything like I imagined. I added one account of threesomes here, because the idea of sharing the taste of another woman definitely piqued my interest! 

At three, and surprisingly, was BDSM. Make no mistake, I love bondage and dominance, but despite coming back to it quite a few times to warm me up, it wasn’t ever enough to seal the deal. It should be noted also, that in all cases, the only pornography that caught my attention was Male Dom porn, Female Dom yielded no interest.

In at second was cunnilingus with a male giver. It is often said that there are two types of people – those who give head because you want it, and those who give head because they want to do it. I have a strong liking for the latter, and it shows!

One caveat here, because technique really was everything. Aggressive tongue flicking was toggled off, slow, sensual and attentive cunnilingus was kept on. Gents, the next time you’re wondering what what women want, there’s your heads up, or heads down. You know what I mean… 

Finally, in at first place was gloryhole porn. I’m really not sure what it is here that keeps me coming back to this topic, whether it be the anonymity factor or the cock worship that I enjoy. As an enthusiastic cock worshipper, I supposed that it might be the idea of appreciating cock for cock’s sake, without any of the complexities of dinner and dating involved! 

So there you have it, the personal porn viewing habits of one very dirty little girl. Now it’s over to you, what is it that has you coming back for more? I’ll look forward to reading your answers in the comments!

Until next time.

Stay safe & have fun, 

Helen xx

5 thoughts on “Cumming Clean: Reflecting On My Personal Porn Use Habits

  1. It was really interesting talking to a (female) friend about what we liked (or didn’t) about cunnilingus. We had almost exactly opposite desires when it came to it. Fascinating!

    1. Oh definitely! But I think porn sometimes focuses too much on the fast and furious, for want of better wording. I think better representation might help young and inexperienced people realise that there are different approaches, and no one way is the right way.

      Incidentally Matt loves to interlock his fingers with mine and hold my hand. Now, it feels like an energy connection that needs to be there in order for it to happen. It’s funny how even the small things can make a difference!

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