TMI Tuesday, 24th March 2022 (NSFW)

A close-up of a man unclipping a woman's bra behind her back, suggests sex sexual partners relationship

Quite possibly my sexiest TMI Tuesday yet!

Who’s back for another round?

What Is TMI Tuesday?

TMI Tuesday is a series of questions generated by TMI Tuesday Blog. It is a great way to meet other bloggers and to share some personal thoughts and experiences. It is important to remember that there are no right or wrong answers to these questions, only the answers of the author –  and that’s part of what makes this tag so awesome!

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Do you have something you’ve been itching to ask? Maybe something food-related, something a little bit kinky or something completely random? Have fun with it, then be sure to check back next Tuesday for my answer!

And now, onto the questions…

1. What made the best sex partner you’ve ever had so good?

He’s very attentive, he’s also quite Dominant, so there’s that. I like to grab a pillow so that I don’t disturb the neighbours, and he’ll just take it off of me and throw it on the floor, because he loves it when I’m vocal and free. He also has this power move when he goes down on me where he wraps his arms around my thighs and pulls me to him and… yep, I just know that I’m not escaping him then. Oh oh, and he’s good with his words, veeerry good with his words… that reminds me actually, because I was listening to Tones & I “Dance Monkey” a few days ago, and in my mind I started imagining this sort of Fifty Shades-esque trailer – with the song as the backing track and Matt and I as the lead characters – and we were standing in front of our tall bedroom mirror with me in black lingerie and sultry make-up with red lipstick, and I was squirming with my desire for Matt at his instruction, our eyes locked on one another. I needed a few moments to refocus myself after that!

Anyway, basically, I think it comes down to having confidence and, you know, he’s pretty confident. He’s confident in and out of the bedroom actually, but it’s a humble confidence, not arrogance. It’s very sexy.

He also said nothing at all about his sexual prowess until I was well and truly in his trap, which is just not fighting fair in my eyes 😉

2. What made the worst sex partner you’ve ever had so bad?

Oh good god… cat at a saucer of milk, that’s all I can really say here. That was his approach to oral and it just lacked… anything really. He was all about trying to please me, as a sexually submissive man, and as a sexually submissive woman, that does nothing for me.

3. Who was the most physically attractive person you ever had sex with?

That would be the same as #1, darling. No, my hands aren’t tied (yet), it’s just a matter of fact. A true English gent, smells great and he’s mighty fine on the eyes 😉

4. How was it?

I have no complaints, he treats me to pizza and wings afterwards sometimes, too. Who can say no to pizza and wings?! #1 aftercare, right there!

5. Who was the least physically attractive person you ever had sex with?

That would have been an ex of mine, he had burn scars to a lot of his body from a childhood accident. I wouldn’t call him ugly by any means, but I was aware of them because he was aware of them, and I think, because he highlighted them so often, I struggled to ignore them. I do remember him going shirtless around me once though, which was interesting and it goes to show what just accepting your partner does to their confidence. Imperfections don’t bother me, I’m imperfect anyway, so who am I to judge others? It’s only when you’re ugly on the inside that I notice.

6. Why did you do it?

Because I liked him and hoped there was potential for a lasting relationship? Actually, it makes me smile to think I’m a poly person now, I wonder how he’d feel if he knew he could still maybe have a slice of my “polyamory pie”? Not a bad guy by any means, but he left me to go be with his Mum back in Ireland so… it was kind of doomed at that point, given I wasn’t about to move to Ireland to be with him. He wanted to be with his family, and I wanted to stay with mine. Shit happens, no hard feelings.

7. How was it?

It’s really hard for me to comment here, because maybe good or maybe bad. I really need to write a longer post on this, but basically, I used to fake my orgasms for a long time because I was convinced that I was ugly, thanks to years of bullying, so I thought that the very last thing that any man wants to see is my cum face. I also worried about saying something really inappropriate (yep, I actually thought no guys would like being called “Daddy” back then!), so by keeping control and not letting it happen, I didn’t expose myself to being ridiculed. I’d say it was fine, but he didn’t make me cum because of the reasons stated (we weren’t together long enough for us to be having deep conversations about complicated pasts and insecurities), so it wasn’t mindblowing. It was a “me” problem, not a “he” problem that caused the issues, if you will. I can gladly say however that thanks to one very kind, patient and empathetic man, times have changed since. The neighbours can verify 😉

Bonus: Describe a bad sexual experience you admit was your fault.

Alright alright, it’s TMI Tuesday. You want TMI? You got it…

It was the last time I swallowed, or tried to swallow. I thought I was ready for the… you know, the grand moment, but no, I was anything but. His cum hit the back of my throat, I gagged and ended up bringing up cum and drool everywhere, followed by watery eyes and a runny nose. I left him covered in my backflow and had to go clean my hands from where I’d tried to stop the impending catastrophe, he was absolutely horrified and needless to say, I’d completely ruined his orgasm. All in all, not a very sexy experience for either of us!

I haven’t tried to swallow since, I just own up to the fact that my body appears to be against the idea and I let that be that. I’m clear about that now, so if my partner/s can’t respect that then frankly they don’t respect me. I can’t say as it’s ever been a problem though and actually, most guys I’ve spoken to about it even seem pretty chill! Sex is always sexier when there’s no pressure to do something you don’t enjoy, so kudos to those of you who don’t pressure your partner into doing something that they don’t want to do. May your beds rock, always.

That’s it from me for this TMI Tuesday! Join me next week for the next round. Do you have any questions for me for next week? Don’t forget to leave them in the comments below!

Until next time!

Stay safe & have fun,

Helen xx

6 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday, 24th March 2022 (NSFW)

  1. Girl, I nearly spit out my morning tea laughing at the “cat at a saucer of milk” part!! ROFL! Such a good post! I got your email and will write you back today, promise! Big hugs to you hun! x <3

  2. hmmm to each his/her own. i personally enjoy the taste and the mess and others do too. But then again i don’t enjoy pain. love your answers and no good answers myself. i will try to think about this more in the mean time May you enjoy a rocking bed time

  3. Thank you for sharing your back story. I like that line ugly is only ugly on the inside.
    I agree.
    I have loved and been loved by some women who we’re not classical beauty but their souls shines like the sun and they fucked like disciples or Aphrodite. Some of the best lovers ever.

    1. Thank you David, you’re certainly right. I know I’m not much to look at but I’m certainly quietly confident both in who I am and what I do. There are people who love me and people who hate me, and frankly as long as the former outweighs the latter then that’s all that really matters.

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