TMI Tuesday, 23rd August 2022 – Pleasure & Pain (NSFW)

A young woman in a blindfold moves towards a door. Sggests bdsm, sensuality, sex, kinky, bondage

Who’s back for another round?

First of all, I’m not going to share the same music video as the TMI Tuesday gang. This song was going through my head while I was reading these questions, so I hope you enjoy it. It’s certainly fitting for me 😉

What Is TMI Tuesday?

TMI Tuesday is a series of questions generated by TMI Tuesday Blog. It is a great way to meet other bloggers and to share some personal thoughts and experiences. It is important to remember that there are no right or wrong answers to these questions, only the answers of the author –  and that’s part of what makes this tag so awesome!

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And now, onto the questions…

1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?

You know, I just couldn’t decide, so I asked Google to flip a coin – pleasure – and I think I have to agree. When I’m bound, blindfolded and ravished to within an inch of my life? Yes please 😉

And now I’m thinking that flipping a coin would be one hell of a way to decide an evening…

There is a very fine line between pleasire and pain. They are two sides of the same coin, one not existing without the other.

E. L. James


2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

No, not personally. I prefer to do the tickling *evil grin*


3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?

Twisties! I have been meaning to show this arrangement off for weeks now and it keeps slipping my mind. You’ll remember my review on How To Build A Sex Room? Well, I definitely didn’t maybe get inspired 😉

A bust-shaped black vase full of red and black ostrich feathers. There is a flame oil diffuser in front of it.

Have I ever? Yes, but they were peacock feathers and about a year later my kitchen caught fire. Just stick to single-colour ones, m’kay?


4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?

Of all of my kinks, I think it’s probably the top one. I’m so in control all day and everyday that it just switches my mind off and allows me to focus on the here and now. Also I find my mind starts to roam and come up with scenarios that aren’t actually happening, but are possible, and my body reacts accordingly. I’m known to become incredibly lustful when blindfolded – probably for that reason!

As an aside, Matt loves to ask me what I’m thinking about during sex. It turns out that he quite likes some of those thoughts too!


5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?

Usually I just use ice and (bondage) candles, but I also own some glass insertables and I’ve been meaning to get hold of a stainless steel dildo for a while now. It’s for science. Yep.


6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?

I do playful spankings, but I’m not into punishing. Matt has this thing where if I’m face down, ass up for whatever reason (admittedly sometimes a bait in itself 😉 ) then he likes to declare “Wolfie likes to play the bongos” and proceeds to roll out a rhythm on my ass. He forgets though that I’m a former school band drummer and us drummers can keep a rhythm well. I’ve done drumrolls a couple of times and then ran like my life depended on it, because in that moment, it certainly does!

Spankings are okay with me, but not as punishment. I get far, far too up in my own head and go back to bad times. One of my exes holds the record for the best cathartic spanking though – I do still think of it!


7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?

Of course, “Red”, but I’ve only ever used it once. We bought an acrylic cane and I said that it didn’t hurt as much as I thought it would so Matt could probably be a bit firmer with it – it turns out that I was wrong!

That’s it from me for this TMI Tuesday! Join me next week for the next round. Do you have any questions for me for next week? Don’t forget to leave them in the comments below!

Until next time!

Stay safe & have fun,

Helen xx

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