Who’s back for another round?
What Is TMI Tuesday?
TMI Tuesday is a series of questions generated by TMI Tuesday Blog. It is a great way to meet other bloggers and to share some personal thoughts and experiences. It is important to remember that there are no right or wrong answers to these questions, only the answers of the author – and that’s part of what makes this tag so awesome!
How To Play TMI Tuesday
Copy the below TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Send Me Your Questions!
Do you have something you’ve been itching to ask? Maybe something food-related, something a little bit kinky or something completely random? Have fun with it, then be sure to check back next Tuesday for my answer!
And now, onto the questions…
1. Have you purchased cryptocurrency (e.g., bitcoin, ethereum, dogecoin, etc.)? Which one?
None, nor would I ever. The amount of electricity required for cryptocurrency is atrocious and many places don’t even recognise it. No thanks, it’s not for me.
2. Have you been scammed by cryptocurrency?
Nope, because I don’t buy it. You can’t lose something you don’t own, or be conned by something you don’t buy. Anyway!
3. Where are you now?
At home, taking part in TMI Tuesday and listening to some Little Mix, of all things. I’m so about this song right now:
Basically, there’s an explanation to this: I was always told that, in D/s, a Dominant may take control, but the submissive holds all of the power. A submissive can call “Red” (or whatever safeword you choose) at any time, and a Dominant worth their salt would stop. A good Dominant would not push a submissive to do something that they know they wouldn’t be comfortable with (at least not if it wasn’t for the benefit of the submissive/relationship), and ultimately, a good Dominant knows that a submissive too can end a relationship if they are unhappy, they do not need a Dominant to set them free. For me then this song reflects a lot of how I feel about my submission, I have the power to say yes or no and to decide who I submit to as much as a Dominant has the power to decide whether or not they want me to submit to them. There is a line in the song, “I’ll let you come take the wheel as long as you don’t forget”. Don’t forget that, ultimately, we are two equals. You must respect me as much as I respect you. If you think you can give me what I need, just remember that I also have what you want and you need. If you want my respect then you had better be willing to give it, otherwise…
4. Where do you want to be?
How dangerously do I want to live? On my knees, hands behind my back and at the service of my Daddy/Sir, that’s where 😉
5. How many hotels have you been kicked out of?
One, but that was kind of a jokey, silly thing. Basically and for some reason then I decided to try and be helpful by making the bed (yes, I know!) the morning after my stay. It was instinctive, okay? Don’t blame me! Anyway, the cleaning lady came around and asked what I was doing, so I told her. She laughed so hard and hugged me and said that I was one of the sweetest people she’d ever met, then jokingly kicked me out because she had to clean the room and change the sheets. So like I say, I was kicked out, but it wasn’t for doing anything bad.
6. How many bars have you been kicked out of?
Just one, and that one was stupid and more serious. Basically, Matt got dared to give his boxers to a girl on her hen do, and as it was his birthday and the rest of the group were in on it, he obliged. I didn’t know anything about it until after, and as we hadn’t discussed ethical non-monogamy at the point then I was understandably pretty pissed. Anyway, we couldn’t talk about it in the club because of the volume of the music so we stepped outside to talk it out. We thought the matter had been resolved and all was well but as we moved to step back inside then the doorman (who had put a stamp on our hands and who was now clearly on a power trip) refused to let us back in for being “drunk” – we weren’t even drunk, just had relationship shit to sort out!
In the end we texted the gang to let them know that we’d been banned for the night and we all walked up to a open-til-3AM bar, where we really did get drunk on 2-for-1 cocktails.
Bonus: What is in the boot/trunk of your car?
I don’t drive, so technically nothing, but if I did then I’d probably have a dog crate and an organiser with dog supplies, dog toys and bags for my shopping. Because deep down, kinky people are normal people, too 😉
That’s it from me for this TMI Tuesday! Join me next week for the next round. Do you have any questions for me for next week? Don’t forget to leave them in the comments below!
Until next time!
Stay safe & have fun,
Bonus picture: He’s got a bed, promises.