What Is TMI Tuesday?
TMI Tuesday is a series of questions generated by TMI Tuesday Blog. It is a great way to meet other bloggers and to share some personal thoughts and experiences. It is important to remember that there are no right or wrong answers to these questions, only the answers of the author – and that’s part of what makes this tag so awesome!
How To Play TMI Tuesday
Copy the below TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Send Me Your Questions!
Do you have something you’ve been itching to ask? Maybe something food-related, something a little bit kinky or something completely random? Have fun with it, then be sure to check back next Tuesday for my answer!
And now, onto the questions…
1. If your chest is hairless would you have a chest hair transplant?
Sure, why not? It’s getting a bit chilly lately, perhaps it might help keep me warm. No, in all seriousness, I quite like my chest the way it is. Besides, I wouldn’t want to make anyone jealous of my luscious fur.
2. Are you the center of attention at parties?
I tend to be just off-centre. Centre of attention enough that nobody is overlooking me, but not the idiot in the middle of the floor who is throwing huge shapes just to get noticed. I tend to socialise a lot, catch up with old faces and meet new ones, I also get people who remember me and approach me. I’m not known to not dance, I’ve just got to be feeling it. Of course, if a gentleman were to offer a lady a dance then… well, it would be rude not to 😉
3. What libido-boosting foods do you believe in and use?
Ginger. Do not shallow fry fresh ginger around me unless you want to end up naked and tired, okay? You were warned.
Also steak, though I’m trying to cut down my red meat consumption. A medium rare steak tends to bring out my more… carnal side.
The smell of chocolate too, it would seem. Matt was wearing Lynx “Dark” once and I kept getting a waft of something that smelled like leather, spice and chocolate, and every time I did then my mind kept thinking about dungeons and domination. I was trying to socialise at a house party while drifting in and out of subspace because of the smells invading my nose and it was driving me nuts. It turns out, it was him!
4. Do you ever get tired of talking about sex?
Not really. My attitude is, and I wrote it in a post that I think I’ve since deleted, “I fuck. We all fuck, and the sooner we can make peace with that fact, the better. I’d much rather we talk about fucking than have someone end up dead in a ditch because of a conversation we didn’t have”. I’m not a giggly little schoolgirl when it comes to sex, because why? Sex happens, sex possibly even happens to you, so grow the fuck up and let’s get real about it. I have friends now, even in my thirties, who giggle because they’ve been getting some action that they think would amaze me. Trust me, sweets, I have stories that could probably make a state trooper blush. Let’s not though, hey? Unless watersports are your thing, nobody needs to turn this into a kinky pissing contest, and if in any event they are? Well then have fun, but YKINMK (YKIOK).
5. How do you think your attitude toward sex differs from your partner’s attitude?
I have two partners, and I think both of them vary when it comes to sex, though neither of them wrong. I think Bill and I are more closely alligned – share, educate, inspire, enjoy. We’re both kinky and we’re both sensual, but we’re both also as focused on teaching others as we are on enjoying for ourselves, because even altruism can also make you feel good. I think it makes us proud of one another too, so there’s that.
With Matt, Matt is more focused on what we can do to boost our own love life, and everyone else should do the same. He’s not against me writing (sometimes he even encourages me), but he’s not quite as proactively involved with teaching and sharing as what Bill is.
Bonus: Do you take your partner for granted?
That’s a tough one. I try not to, and I think sometimes I get moments where I wonder if, maybe, but then I think that’s just a part of being a concientious human being. Sometimes I think I don’t deserve Matt or Bill, but then I think about what I do for them and I just think “nah, there’s a reason they’re here”. If they weren’t happy with something, I’d trust that they’d both tell me.
That’s it from me for this TMI Tuesday! Join me next week for the next round. Do you have any questions for me for next week? Don’t forget to leave them in the comments below!
Until next time!
Stay safe & have fun,
Bonus picture: I’ve got no idea how this is comfortable, but okay.