Waving Bye Bye To TMI (Plus Some Updates)

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Hey Twisties,

After 13 years, this week H of TMI Tuesday blog has called it quits. I am sad to her go and I will miss the TMI Tuesday gang, but it is what it is and as much as it has been fun, each and every blogger has the right to decide what is right for them. H will be missed and I wish her every success and happiness, whereever her journey takes her next!

An Important Update For Kinky With A Twist

I wasn’t planning to share this news so soon, but this feels like a good time and so I will. Kinky With A Twist is growing on an almost daily basis now, and where solo bloggers go then this site is comfortable success. Until now I have been posting twice a week, and even with that, I still see hundreds of daily views. Unfortunately, whilst I love blogging, I am struggling to get other things done, I am struggling to look after myself and above all else, I am exceptionally scared of overpromising and underdelivering. I want to make sure that I’m doing what I can do and not promising one thing and then failing to deliver. Did you notice that I didn’t post on Friday? A case in point – I was too busy turning our lounge around. We’d reached 10PM and I was still convinced it was a Thursday!

I’ve promised you books, and I want to make sure that I get those written. I’m aware of how much my posts help people, and I want to make sure they’re as good as they can be, that the SEO is as good as it can be and that the people who want to find my writings can find them. I’ve got dead links I need to fix, a home to run and a body to look after, and to be honest, they’re all things that I’ve been neglecting for too long. I need to make some changes.

Initially I was going to keep to TMI Tuesdays anyway and post once a fortnight, on a Friday like usual. However, after H announced her news then that left me facing a dilemma: do I carry on with once a week, or do I stick to my guns and cut back to once a fortnight?

I decided to stick to my guns.

I love blogging, but the people who read me deserve quality content that isn’t rushed , my family deserve a home that they can live in and someone that they can spend time with, and my body deserve my attention, too. It’s not a decision I’ve made because it’s all that I can give, it’s a decision that I’ve made because it is right for me.

In her last TMI Tuesday, H asked me what my New Year’s resolutions were and I said that one of them was to make more time for myself. Now, that’s exactly what I’m doing.

Ending On A High Note…

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Today is my 5-year blogiversary!

Twisties, to go from someone who used to complain to her friends about how tired her wrists were and how much they ached, to someone who is cutting down on how oftem she blogs, and pretty much just because she can? That feels incredible! Of course I wouldn’t be in this position without your continued support, so thankyou.

Don’t Forget!

If you enjoy reading me, be sure to check out my sister site, Whispers Of A Phoenix, for regular rambles and Bloganuary posts. See you there!

That’s it from me for this post! Will you still be blogging in 2023? What changes (if any) are you planning to make? Let me know in the comments!

Until next time!

Stay safe & have fun,

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