I knew that I was different, I just didn't quite understand how.
You've probably thought about it, but is it really worth it?
Disclaimer: This post talks quite explicitly about sex. If you'd rather not read, please turn back now. If you know me, you'll know that one of my biggest passions in life is sex. If you really know me, you'll kow that my biggest passion of all, is psychology. Ever since I was a little girl. … Continue reading What’s The Meaning Behind Your Moans?
This, really has my hackles up right now. I know, believe me I know. There are people out there, there are individuals out there who are sick or are depraved enough to commit atrocities such as rape and murder, purely for no other reason than because they can, because it was there and they could … Continue reading Why I’m Standing with #NotAllMen, As A Sexual Assault Survivor
Not so long ago, I wrote a post about the number of men that I have spoken to online, who have asked me what I've been looking for on the internet. A number of you reached out to me and let me know that you had been through similar experiences, how frustrating it is and … Continue reading On Love, Sex & Instant Messaging: Photos
Chatting to loved ones? Chatting to friends? Maybe even having some innocent (or not-so-innocent) chats with bae?
Disclaimer: This post mentions topics involving consensual sexual violence. Not suitable for individuals under eighteen years of age. Reader discretion is advised. I was really inspired by Still Searching For Prince Charming and her really authentic blog post in which she discussed her reasons for writing about sex. Indeed, it got me thinking more about … Continue reading Why I Write About Sex & BDSM
Many months ago, I was woken by the rattling of the bed. Wolfie was gaming again, I thought, but as I opened one sleepy eye I realised that the only joystick my husband was playing with was the one he normally keeps in his pants. While I slept, my husband was masturbating. More recently, it … Continue reading How NOT To Handle Your Partner Masturbating In Bed
By creating a space for it to happen, you can help to put intimacy back on the menu.
My stories with sexual assault, finally revealed.