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Helen & Matt’s Brief Guide To BDSM

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Are you new to BDSM? Curious about getting started in our devilish ways? Firstly, welcome! We put this guide together to give you a basic guide to BDSM, from what BDSM is, to how to stay safe and how to make your relationship the best that it can be.

My husband, Matt, and myself have been a Dominant & submissive pairing for more than a decade with more than 25 years combined experience in the BDSM scene. Both in our early thirties, we aim to teach in a way that is fun, energetic and appeals to an audience of all ages and without missing out any of the core details. We put this free workshop together to share and to teach some of the core tenets that we believe lead to a happy, healthy, long-lasting relationship. This information was always free to us, and so we believe that it should be free to you, too.

So, what are you waiting for? Why not get started below?

BDSM At A Glance

Do I Have Your Consent? Obtaining Consent In BDSM

Ten Kinky Abbreviations You Need To Know

Communication in BDSM

A Little Look At Labels & Titles

Rules & Contracts – What’s Right For You?

Some Do’s & Don’ts Of Domination

Stop! You Still Need A Safeword

What To Hit (And How To Hit It)

The Importance Of Aftercare

Safe & Satisfying Sex

Your Kinky F.A.Q’s

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