Making The Switch

A greyscale picture of an old-looking light switch

April 19, 2022April 19, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 2 Comments

Sometimes all it really takes is the right person.

Stress Relief (NSFW)

A woman in a black dress and fishnets poses with a spanking paddle

April 16, 2022April 18, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 1 Comment

A little something much better than wine or chocolate.

Smells Like Team Spirit

A climber helps another up the peak as the sun breaks through the clouds

April 11, 2022April 11, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 10 Comments

A new week and a new beginning.

An Apology To My Ex

A pair of red roses with a note that reads 'I'm sorry'.

April 9, 2022April 9, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 4 Comments

Sometimes healing ourselves means helping to heal others.

Are Collars Essential In BDSM?

A woman wearing a s[iked leather collar and cuffs and a black lace dress

April 9, 2022April 9, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 13 Comments

Do you really need a collar in BDSM play? Weighing up the debate for and against.

On Coffee & Kink

A picture of a coffee cup on a jute bag with coffee beans and a leather bound book

April 7, 2022April 7, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 3 Comments

A steady return to my normal married life.

Onto Pastures New

A green grassy field behind stone wall. There is wils graan in front of the wall and trees to the right

April 6, 2022April 6, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 5 Comments

All good things must come to an end.

A Name From Days Gone By

March 31, 2022March 31, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 3 Comments

Twelve years later, my old self came calling.

The Poor Man…

A courier holds up a box of groceries while a person goes to take the box

March 28, 2022March 28, 2022 ~ Helen ~ Leave a comment

I don't think my grocery driver was ready for this talk so early on a Monday morning!

I Founded One Of Bristol’s Most Loved Munches, Here’s Why I Gave It Up

A group of friends raise their pints of beer to one another. There are blurred people smiling in the background.

March 25, 2022March 25, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 2 Comments

My lasting legacy in Bristol's kinky scene.