Are Collars Essential In BDSM?

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April 9, 2022April 9, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 13 Comments

Do you really need a collar in BDSM play? Weighing up the debate for and against.

On Coffee & Kink

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April 7, 2022April 7, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 3 Comments

A steady return to my normal married life.

Onto Pastures New

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April 6, 2022April 6, 2022 ~ Helen ~ 5 Comments

All good things must come to an end.

Get Ready With Me: What To Eat Before A BDSM Scene

March 11, 2022March 11, 2022 ~ Helen ~ Leave a comment

Some top tips to help you make more of a meal of kinky sex night.

30 Days Submission: Day 22 – Submission Without Domination, Is It Possible?

A lady kneels on the floor with her wrists tied above her head with red rope, white text on a black overlaid banner reads "30 Days Of Submission: Day 22 - Submission Without Domination, Is It Possible?"

December 10, 2021December 10, 2021 ~ Helen ~ 2 Comments

Whether we're single or not, how do we sate the urge to serve when we find ourselves all alone?

04th July 2021 – Goals & Grievances

July 5, 2021July 5, 2021 ~ Helen ~ Leave a comment

Some things went well, and others? Not so much.

16th June 2021 – Brainstorm

June 16, 2021June 26, 2021 ~ ~ 9 Comments

After a blip in our BDSM relationship, we found a practical way to move forward.

15th June 2021 – Mis-Beehive-iour

June 15, 2021 ~ ~ 4 Comments

Disclaimer: This post contains strong language and topics involving sexual activity and consensual sexual violence. Not suitable for individuals under eighteen years of age. Reader discretion is advised. I had an interesting call earlier, it made me think of someone. Oh?, I replied. A nest of bees. Would of been in your Dad's catchment area. … Continue reading 15th June 2021 – Mis-Beehive-iour