Today was a yucky day, but a little reflection hurts no-one.
You've probably thought about it, but is it really worth it?
As the years roll by in the blogging community, something that often comes to my attention is blogging fatigue. That is, fatigue after years and years of writing, and still maybe (or not) getting very far. Different bloggers will have different frustrations and I've seen several people mention various grievances, from my good friend Bill, … Continue reading The Hidden Frustrations Of A Sex Blogger
Disclaimer: This post talks quite explicitly about sex. If you'd rather not read, please turn back now. If you know me, you'll know that one of my biggest passions in life is sex. If you really know me, you'll kow that my biggest passion of all, is psychology. Ever since I was a little girl. … Continue reading What’s The Meaning Behind Your Moans?
I've always been a metaphorical thinker, and that is something that my husband has always loved about me. I draw comparisons and analogies out of thin air, and I compare ploughing through my task list like items on a conveyor belt with a big wheel with paddles, actively pushing my completed items behind me. On … Continue reading What Has Cake Got To Do With Kinky Sex?
Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? My immediate reaction to this question was to laugh, because even if I identify as a submissive, that whole "being available anytime he or she wants"? Yeah, no, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission
I was really inspired by Still Searching For Prince Charming and her really authentic blog post in which she discussed her reasons for writing about sex. Indeed, it got me thinking more about why I choose to write about sex and BDSM. As a personal blogger who discusses my personal life and kinky interests quite … Continue reading Why I Write About Sex & BDSM
Many months ago, I was woken by the rattling of the bed. Wolfie was gaming again, I thought, but as I opened one sleepy eye I realised that the only joystick my husband was playing with was the one he normally keeps in his pants. While I slept, my husband was masturbating. More recently, it … Continue reading How NOT To Handle Your Partner Masturbating In Bed
I woke just before the clock struck 8am. Slill drowsy, I sat up on my bed and looked to Wolfie, who was already sat up, writing notes and focusing on a call. I smiled at him softly then picked up my phone to message him: We shouldn't have done the thing last night.. So sleepy … Continue reading Raunchy Ramble: Late Nights & Early Mornings
I want to talk a little bit about setting the scene, about some of the simple and most effective ways that we use to set the scene for BDSM play and some ideas that might inspire you.